When it comes to feeling confident, prepared, and empowered in your sexual health, convenience matters. That’s why a Lovability subscription is more than just a box—it’s peace of mind delivered when you need it most.

Choosing the right condom size is essential for comfort, safety, and effectiveness. Condoms that are too tight can break, while those that are too loose may slip off. Here’s a quick guide to the typical condom sizes and how to find the best fit.

Typical Condom Sizes

1. Regular Size

• Width: 50-54mm (flat width)

• Length: ~7 inches (180mm)

• Best for: Girths of 4.7-5.1 inches (circumference)

• The most commonly available size, designed to comfortably fit the average penis.

2. Snug Fit (Smaller Size)

• Width: 47-49mm

• Length: ~7 inches (180mm)

• Best for: Girths under 4.7 inches

• Ideal for those who find regular condoms too loose or prone to slipping. A snug fit enhances security and sensitivity.

3. Large (or Plus) Size

• Width: 55-58mm

• Length: 7.5-8 inches (190-203mm)

• Best for: Girths of 5.1-5.5 inches

• Provides extra room for those who feel restricted in regular condoms.

• The size of Lovability Ultra-Thin Condoms (Plus Fit).

4. Extra-Large Size

• Width: 58-62mm+

• Length: 8+ inches (203mm+)

• Best for: Girths over 5.5 inches

• Designed for those who need maximum comfort and flexibility without feeling constricted.

What About Thinness?

Many condoms are labeled as "ultra-thin" or "exceptionally thin," meaning they are designed to provide maximum sensation while maintaining durability. Typically, ultra-thin condoms range from 0.045mm to 0.055mm in thickness, compared to standard condoms, which are around 0.06mm to 0.07mm.

Does Size Affect Thinness and Safety?

Larger condoms, due to increased surface area, may require reinforced material to maintain strength, but advancements in latex technology ensure that ultra-thin condoms are still safe across all sizes. However, it’s important to choose a properly fitting condom to prevent breakage, especially when using thinner varieties.

Finding the right condom size and thinness level enhances pleasure, safety, and overall sexual confidence.

What Size Are Lovability Ultra-Thin Condoms?

When it comes to safe sex, women deserve condoms that enhance pleasure, protect vaginal health, and align with their values. Unfortunately, many traditional condoms are designed with men in mind, often neglecting the comfort, sensitivity, and well-being of those who actually experience penetration. At Lovability, we believe that women should have a say in their sexual health—and that starts with using the best condoms for their bodies and the planet.

Whether you're looking for the best-feeling condom, the safest condom for sensitive skin, or the most eco-friendly option, we've got you covered (literally). Here’s what to look for when choosing condoms designed with women in mind.

1. Best Feeling Condoms: Ultra-Thin for Maximum Pleasure

Let’s be real—nobody likes having sex with a condom. We use them because condoms keep us safe from STIs and unwanted pregnancy. The best condoms for women should enhance pleasure, not dull it. That’s why ultra-thin, barely-there condoms are a game changer.

Lovability Ultra-Thin Condoms are designed to feel as natural as possible while still providing the reliable protection you need. Made with premium, high-quality latex, they offer that intimate skin-to-skin sensation without compromising safety. A thinner condom means more heat transfer, increased sensitivity, and an overall more pleasurable experience for both partners.

When you can actually feel your partner inside you, sex becomes more connective and enjoyable.

2. Best Body-Safe Condoms: Chemical-Free & pH-Friendly

Your vaginal health matters, and the wrong condom can throw off your natural balance. Many mainstream condoms contain harsh chemicals, artificial colors, and even allergens that can cause irritation, disrupt pH levels, or trigger infections. If you’ve ever experienced discomfort after sex, your condoms could be to blame.

That’s why the best condoms for women are made with body-safe ingredients. Lovability Ultra-Thin Condoms are free from parabens, glycerin, spermicide, PFSA ("forever chemicals"), and other harmful chemicals that can lead to irritation or yeast infections. Instead, they’re made with natural, vegan latex and lubricated with 100% pure silicone for a smooth, non-irritating glide. Silicone-based lubrication is not only hypoallergenic but also longer-lasting than water-based lubes, making intimacy even more enjoyable.

For women with sensitive skin, Lovability natural condoms provide peace of mind without compromising pleasure. You should never have to choose between protection and comfort—and with Lovability, you don’t have to.

3. Best Sustainable Condoms: Better for You & the Planet

Safe sex should also be safe for the planet. Every year, billions of condoms end up in landfills, and many are produced using environmentally harmful processes. But sustainable options are changing the game.

Lovability Ultra-Thin Condoms are made from locally sourced, natural rubber latex, ensuring ethical production practices that support both people and the environment.  Our packaging is also designed with sustainability in mind, as we continue to remove unnecessary ribbons, finishes, and excess materials. And our chic, signature condom-carrying tins - perfect for discreetly carrying up to 4 condoms - are reusable and recyclable.

Lovability is also a proud partner of 1% For The Planet, donating 1% of our sales to organizations such as Women's Voices For The Earth, that support vaginal health and Mama Earth. When you choose Lovability, you’re not just making a responsible choice for your body—you’re making a meaningful impact on the planet.

Lovability: Designed by Women, for Women

At Lovability, our mission is to empower women to take charge of their sexual health. We know that the condom industry has long catered to men, and we’re here to change that. Our everyday essential products are thoughtfully designed with women’s needs in mind, from body-safe materials to pleasure-enhancing ultra-thin designs.

Taking control of your sexual health means choosing products that align with your values—whether that’s comfort, safety, sustainability, or all of the above. With Lovability Ultra-Thin Condoms, you get the best of all worlds: an ultra-thin feel, body-safe ingredients, and an eco-conscious design that makes safe sex something to celebrate.

So, why settle for anything less than the best? Your pleasure, health, and the planet deserve it. Try Lovability sex essentials - condoms, personal lubricant, and intimate wipes - today and experience the difference for yourself.

Experiencing pleasure and wanting to scream it to the world (no judgements here), but sometimes we’re looking for sex toys that are just, well, on the quiet side. There are so many reasons to look for a quiet sex toy - like, if you’re visiting or living with your parents, have roommates, or, if you're like me, you’re tired of having to desensitize your children to the sound of the loud buzz of your “back" massager.

Luckily, there are lots of companies, many of which are women-owned 😊, which understand the added benefits of designing products that are discreet and whisper-quiet. Here’s a list of my favorite silent sex toys (all body-safe, of course).

1) OhMyG

This super silent G-spot vibrator was designed to reach the sometimes-elusive erogenous area with a “pearl” at the top of the toy that pulses for ultimate stimulation. What really sold me on the OhMyG was the story behind its creation. It was created by a couple who have children and who saw a void in the market. They created the OhMyG to be both quiet and powerful for mind-blowing pleasure.

You can purchase the OhMyG at IOBA Toys right now for $99 (Normally $159). 

2) Vesper

Okay, how amazing is it that you can wear one of your favorite sex toys as a gorgeous piece of jewelry? It feels provocative knowing you can take off your necklace and have guaranteed pleasure no matter where you are. The Vesper is so quiet and so incredibly powerful someone would think there is some #blackmagicfuckery going on. If you love clitoral stimulation, this little baby packs a punch while still being discreet.

You can purchase the Vesper at Love Crave from $69.

3) The WaterSlyde

Okay, this is my absolute fav! I'm a little biased because I’m the inventor after all. I created The WaterSlyde as a way to get back to my grass roots of my self-pleasure rituals. You can’t get any more discreet than having some private time in the tub. What? I’m “just” taking a bath.

The WaterSlyde delivers a delicious stream of water directly to your vulva for some intense pleasure. The only sound people will hear is running water (If you can manage to control your moans, that is).

You can purchase The WaterSlyde by Lovability for $35.

4) Unbound Squish 

I love this little palm-sized vibrator. The shape reminds me of my makeup applicator — but it does way more! One of the cool things about The Squish is that the harder you squeeze, the stronger the vibration becomes. It even lets you compose and replay customizable vibration patterns so every time is unique.

You can purchase The Squish at Unbound for $99.

5) NJoy Fun Wand

The Fun Wand is as silent as you can get. This is a must-have in your collection of sex toys. It is beautifully crafted of high-quality stainless steel and is wonderful for both vaginal and anal play (don’t go back and forth without cleaning though).  

You can purchase the Fun Wand at Njoy for $95.

6) The Womanizer Starlet 

This is the OG of the revolutionary airpulse technology. Rather than vibrate, The Starlet makes an air-tight seal over your clitoris and pulses air to stimulate. Ugh, and don’t get me started with how many knock-offs have come from this little baby. Not only can you have amazing orgasms from The Starlet but it actually has a silent mode. And if you’re concerned about people finding your sex toys, the nice thing is you can leave this out next to your makeup and some might just think it’s for facials 😊.

You can purchase the Starlet at Womanizer right now for $49 (Normally $69).

7) Lioness Vibrator 

Last but definitely not least, is the Lioness. Created by badass women engineers, it’s one of the most advanced sex toys on the market. It has built-in sensors and an intuitive mobile app that allows you to visualize your arousal and orgasms which brilliantly helps you learn what you like. How cool is that? If that’s not reason enough, it also delivers powerful customizable speeds while maintaining a very low level of sound.

You can purchase the Lioness here for $229.

So the next time you're on the prowl for a super silent sex toy, try one of these 7 best silent sex toys for women. And remember: most sex toy materials are compatible with water-based lube, like HALLELUBEYAH Organic Aloe, for some extra pleasure (just make sure to check the labels on your toys first). 

The WaterSlyde aquatic stimulator and Hallelubeyah personal lubricant are products of Lovability. All other products have been personally chosen and neither the author, Babe With The Power nor Lovability receive compensation for these recommendations (we're just big fans!). 

About The Author

Inventor of The WaterSlyde, a revolutionary, patented feminine hygiene device / stimulator, and co-owner of Lovability, Maureen Pollack believes in removing the stigma surrounding sexual health and personal hygiene. She is also an intimacy coach, helping empower women in all stages of life to embrace intimacy through coaching and lifestyle products. A book and feature film about Maureen’s journey as a “mompreneur” are currently in pre-production.

let's dive into a topic that's all about embracing joy and pleasure in our everyday lives – and how it can actually lead to a more satisfying sex life. Yep, you heard me right! It's time to explore how practicing "everyday pleasure" can pave the way for a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experience. So, grab your favorite cozy spot, settle in, and let's delve into the wonderful world of pleasure and intimacy.

What is "Everyday Pleasure"?

First things first, let's talk about what we mean by "everyday pleasure." Simply put, everyday pleasure is all about finding joy, satisfaction, and fulfillment in the little moments of life. It's about embracing the simple pleasures that bring us happiness and contentment on a daily basis, whether it's enjoying a delicious meal, indulging in a hot cup of tea, or savoring a beautiful sunset.

How Does "Everyday Pleasure" Impact Your Sex Life?

Now, you might be wondering – what does everyday pleasure have to do with my sex life? The answer is quite simple – practicing everyday pleasure can actually enhance your overall sense of well-being and satisfaction, which can in turn lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life. Here's how:

1. Increased Confidence: When you prioritize pleasure and joy in your everyday life, you naturally boost your confidence and self-esteem. Feeling good about yourself and your life spills over into the bedroom, making you feel more comfortable and confident in your own skin, which can lead to more satisfying sexual experiences.

2. Reduced Stress: Practicing everyday pleasure helps to reduce stress and anxiety, which are major mood killers when it comes to sex. When you're feeling relaxed and at ease, you're more likely to be present in the moment and enjoy the experience fully, leading to more satisfying sexual encounters.

3. Enhanced Connection: Embracing joy and pleasure in your everyday life strengthens your connection with yourself and with your partner. When you're tuned into your own desires and needs, you're better able to communicate them to your partner, leading to a deeper and more fulfilling sexual connection.

4. Increased Sensuality: When you make pleasure a priority in your daily life, you become more attuned to your senses and more in touch with your body. This heightened sense of sensuality can translate into the bedroom, making sex more pleasurable and satisfying for both you and your partner.

5. More Intimacy: Practicing everyday pleasure fosters a sense of intimacy and connection in your relationship, which is essential for a satisfying sex life. When you prioritize joy and pleasure with your partner outside of the bedroom, you strengthen your emotional bond, leading to more intimate and satisfying sexual experiences.

Tips for Practicing "Everyday Pleasure"

Now that we've explored how everyday pleasure can enhance your sex life, let's talk about some practical tips for incorporating more pleasure into your daily routine:

1. Savor the Moment: Slow down and savor the little moments of joy and pleasure in your everyday life. Whether it's enjoying your morning coffee, taking a walk in nature, or cuddling up with a good book, savoring these moments helps to cultivate a sense of happiness and fulfillment.

2. Prioritize Self-Care: Make self-care a priority in your daily routine. Whether it's indulging in a luxurious bath, practicing yoga, or treating yourself to a massage, taking care of yourself physically and emotionally helps to boost your overall sense of well-being and satisfaction.

3. Connect with Others: Cultivate meaningful connections with friends, family, and loved ones. Spending quality time with the people you care about, sharing laughter and conversation, and creating cherished memories together adds richness and joy to your life.

4. Explore Your Senses: Engage your senses and explore the world around you. Whether it's indulging in delicious food, listening to your favorite music, or admiring a beautiful piece of art, tuning into your senses enhances your experience of pleasure and joy.

5. Embrace Sensuality: Embrace your sensuality and tap into your body's natural pleasure response. Whether it's through dancing, sensual touch, or exploring your own body, embracing your sensuality fosters a deeper connection with yourself and enhances your experience of pleasure.

So, there you have it – a quick guide to how practicing "everyday pleasure" can give you a more satisfying sex life. By prioritizing joy and pleasure in your daily life, you cultivate a sense of happiness, fulfillment, and connection that spills over into your intimate relationships, leading to more satisfying and fulfilling sexual experiences.

Here's to embracing joy, pleasure, and intimacy in all areas of our lives!

Let's talk about something that's near and dear to my heart – masturbation and arousal as part of everyday pleasure. Yep, you heard me right! It's time to embrace our sexuality and celebrate the joy and satisfaction that come from exploring our bodies and experiencing pleasure on a regular basis.

So, grab your favorite cozy spot, settle in, and let's dive into how masturbation and arousal can - and should - be part of our everyday lives.

Embracing Masturbation as Self-Care

First things first, let's talk about masturbation as a form of self-care. Yep, you read that correctly – masturbation can be a powerful act of self-love and self-care. Taking the time to explore our bodies, indulge in pleasure, and connect with ourselves on a deeper level is an essential part of maintaining our overall well-being.

Exploring Arousal and Sensuality

Now, onto the topic of arousal and sensuality. Arousal isn't just reserved for the bedroom – it can be part of our everyday lives! Whether it's a flirtatious exchange with a crush, a steamy scene in a movie, or a sensual touch from a partner, embracing arousal and sensuality in our daily lives can add an extra spark of excitement and joy.

The Benefits of Everyday Pleasure

So, why should we make masturbation and arousal part of our everyday lives? Well, my dear, the benefits are endless! From boosting our mood and reducing stress to improving our sexual confidence and enhancing our overall well-being, embracing pleasure on a regular basis can have a profound impact on our lives.

Tips for Incorporating Masturbation and Arousal into Your Everyday Routine

Now that we've covered the importance of everyday pleasure, let's talk about some tips for incorporating masturbation and arousal into your daily routine:

1. Set Aside Time for Self-Love: Just like you schedule time for exercise or relaxation, make sure to carve out some time for self-love and exploration. Whether it's in the morning, evening, or whenever works best for you, prioritize pleasure as part of your routine.

2. Experiment with Different Techniques: Don't be afraid to mix things up and try new techniques when it comes to masturbation. Whether it's using your hands, a vibrator, or exploring erogenous zones you've never paid attention to before, there are endless possibilities for pleasure.

3. Embrace Sensual Experiences: Look for opportunities to embrace sensuality and arousal in your everyday life. Whether it's indulging in a steamy romance novel, taking a hot bath, or treating yourself to a sensual massage, find activities that make you feel alive and aroused.

4. Focus on Pleasure: Remember, the goal of masturbation and arousal isn't necessarily to reach orgasm every time – it's about embracing pleasure in all its forms. Focus on what feels good and explore your desires without putting pressure on yourself to perform.

5. Practice Self-Love and Acceptance: Last but certainly not least, practice self-love and acceptance throughout your journey of exploring masturbation and arousal. Embrace your body, your desires, and your pleasure without judgment or shame.

So, there you have it – a quick guide to embracing masturbation and arousal as part of everyday pleasure. From self-love to sensuality, exploring pleasure on a regular basis can have a profound impact on our lives.

Here's to embracing our sexuality, indulging in pleasure, and living our best lives every day!

Hey there, fabulous ladies! Let's talk about something that's a big part of our lives – getting ready to have sex. Whether it's a planned rendezvous with a partner or a spontaneous encounter, there's often a lot that goes into preparing for the main event.

So, let's dive into 10 things that women do to get ready when they know they're going to have sex.

1. Shower Time: First things first, it's time to hop in the shower and freshen up. A quick rinse and a teeth brushing will help you feel clean and confident before getting intimate. If you have time, take a relaxing, sensual bath - perhaps with your partner - for a bit of extra foreplay and to build up your arousal.

2. Grooming Rituals: Whether it's shaving, waxing, or just a trim, grooming rituals can help you feel your best before sex. It's all about personal preference and feeling comfortable in your own skin.

3. Picking Out Lingerie: Ah, the age-old question – what to wear? Picking out the perfect lingerie will definitely set the mood and make you feel sexy and confident.

4. Scent Selection: Choosing the right scent is key to feeling irresistible. Whether it's a spritz of a perfume or a dab of scented lotion, add a touch of fragrance before getting busy.

5. Checking the Bedding: No one wants to get down and dirty on dirty sheets! Take a quick peek at the bedding to make sure it's fresh and inviting for your intimate encounter. A spritz of an aphrodisiac bedsheet spray will help set the mood and create a sensory reminder to you and your partner that it's sexy time.

6. Pre-Sex Snack: A little pre-sex snack can be the perfect way to fuel up and satisfy those cravings before getting busy. Whether it's a piece of chocolate or a glass of wine, indulge a bit before getting intimate.

7. Set the Mood: Creating the right atmosphere is essential for a memorable intimate experience. Light a massage candle, dim the lights, and put on some sexy music to set the mood just right.

8. Double-Check Birth Control & STI Protection: If you're not trying to conceive and wish to lessen the risk of contracting an STI, making sure you're protected is essential. Double-check your birth control method and make sure you have body-safe, easy-open condoms on hand to ensure you and your partner are covered and ready to go.

9. Ready The Essentials: Make sure you have what you need - and in a convenient place - to stay protected, feel good, and clean up after sex. Silky-smooth, long-lasting personal lubricant? Arousal balm to get the juices flowing? Your favorite toy(s) to heighten the pleasure? Natural pH-balanced wipes to refresh, soothe, and moisturize your sensitive areas after sex? Nothing better knowing your body-safe sex essentials are there for you when you need them.

10. Get in the Right Headspace: Last but certainly not least, take a moment to get in the right headspace before getting intimate. Whether it's a quick meditation, some positive affirmations, or just a deep breath, take a moment to center yourself and slow down for even better sex.

So, there you have it, lovely ladies – 10 things that women do to prepare when they know they're going to have sex. From grooming rituals to setting the mood, it's all about feeling confident, comfortable, and ready for an unforgettable experience. Here's to embracing our sexuality and enjoying every moment of