One of the best things about removing your hands from masturbation is how it allows you to fully immerse yourself in your fantasies, freeing your mind from the physical act. Consider the fact that it's almost impossible to tickle yourself?!

When your hands are involved, it sends a message to your brain that you are in control, but when you remove them, it feels like someone else is in charge. 

4 Types Of Hands-Free Masturbation

Let’s explore some of my favorite ways to find pleasure without using your hands:

1. Teddy Bear Thrusting

Remember falling in love with your teddy bear or pillow? Well, that sensation of thrusting your pelvic forward and grinding on something can feel amazing. It puts your body in motion, making you feel like you’re in the act, and when you go backward, it exposes your sensitive tissues, creating an explosive sensation.

2. Bathtub Faucet Bliss

Scooch underneath your bathtub faucet and let the water fall on your vulva. You can even attach a WaterSlyde aquatic stimulator to your faucet for added comfort. As Vice Magazine put it, it feels "like getting head from a mermaid with 1,000 tongues.” The sensation of water rushing over you mimics the feeling of oral pleasure, providing intense pleasure.

3. Shower Wall Devices

Consider using devices that you can attach to either the shower wall or the floor for internal stimulation. Some devices come with attached vibrators that can be positioned for optimal pleasure. This mimics the sensation of having a partner there, enhancing the overall experience.

4. Vibrators for Hands-Free Pleasure

Explore vibrators designed specifically for hands-free pleasure. Some can be worn in your underwear, while others are designed for grinding on. Vibrations are a trusted way for many to reach climax, and these devices provide an added layer of stimulation.

If you haven’t tried hands-free masturbation, give it a go. It’s hands-down one of the most pleasurable ways to explore your desires. And for those in the disability community, know that you’re seen and heard. There are options and resources available to ensure everyone can experience pleasure and intimacy in their own way.

Whether you’re looking to enhance solo pleasure or explore new sensations, hands-free masturbation offers a world of possibilities. Dive in and discover what works best for you.

With Love & Self-Love, 

Maureen

Masturbation May—a time to celebrate self-care, self-love, and exploration. This year, challenge yourself to get out of your comfort zone and try something new. Whether it's incorporating pleasure products, exploring fantasies, or experimenting with a new location, the possibilities are endless.

Think of your body like a volcano—the more it simmers and builds up the pressure, the more intense your eruption is going to be. Go beyond the "pussy sneeze," slow down, and explore all 6 types of female orgasms.

Sometimes, when you create something with a specific purpose in mind, you don’t realize the myriad of alternative uses and benefits it can offer. I've been amazed by the inventive and amusing ways people have discovered to utilize The WaterSlyde.

Below are some of the more ingenious yet humorous ideas for how to get the most out of your WaterSlyde:

1. Hygiene Hack: The second most popular use people have for The WaterSlyde is as an intimate care device. The flow of water over your vulva provides a refreshing, yet effective, natural cleanse. I’m grateful to an anonymous customer who shared how it helps them, especially when facing challenges due to disability. Think of it as power washing your fence—but for personal cleanliness.

2. Smooth Shaving: Need a smoother shaving experience? Let the water rush over your razor and legs while you shave. It's an unexpected but effective way to enhance the process. No need to rinse and tappy tap tap, or worse. 

3. Celebratory Shots: Okay this one literally had me on the floor…in a bar. Taking shots off The WaterSlyde during a celebration adds an extra element of fun and camaraderie. Forget the body-shots, I’m packing a WaterSlyde on my next adventure!

4. Bubble Bath Booster: Agitating the bubbles in your bath using The WaterSlyde creates an incredible frothy spa experience, making bath time even more indulgent and enjoyable.

5. Alternative to a Sitz Bath: It made me very happy to hear that doctors and vaginal oncologists recommend The WaterSlyde for a variety of ailments. Using The WaterSlyde as an alternative to a sitz bath, where soothing water helps alleviate nerve endings and speed up the healing process, has brought comfort to many after vaginal childbirth, radiation therapy, hemorrhoids and more. I feel honored and grateful to be part of something that brings relief to people in need. 

And that's not all! Here’s a few more added uses people have shared

• Pet Washing Aid: Makes bath time easier for your furry friends.

• Water Balloon Launcher: Adds a new level of fun to outdoor activities.
• Salad Tongs: Unexpected, but hey, whatever works!
• Menstrual Cramp Soother: Letting warm water flow over your tummy can bring relief.
• Toy for Kids: Whether it's Barbie or Hot Wheels, The WaterSlyde offers endless entertainment.

The WaterSlyde is more than just an amazing source of pleasure—it's a versatile tool with lots of alternative uses that surprise even me, the inventor. While I may have been hyper-focused on my own experiences when designing it, it's fascinating to see how people have ingeniously repurposed it for various uses, enriching lives in unexpected ways.

Got any other unconventional uses to share? Feel free to email: Maureen@lovabilityinc.com. Would love to hear your suggestions and share them back out. Xx

How Do Arousal Balms Work?

Arousal balms typically contain ingredients like menthol or peppermint that stimulate nerve endings and increase blood flow to the clitoral area. When applied topically, the balm creates a tingling or warming sensation, heightening sensitivity and arousal. This enhanced sensation can lead to increased pleasure and satisfaction during intimate moments.

Beyond just feeling good, arousal balms can help increase blood flow and sensation to the clitoral area, potentially addressing issues related to arousal and sexual pleasure, such as low libido or difficulty reaching orgasm.

Where Do You Put Arousal Balm?

You might be wondering – where exactly do you apply arousal balm? Do we only put arousal balms on the erogenous zones?

Here's a quick list to help you make the most of this feel-good product:

1. Clitoral Area: Arousal balms are typically applied to the clitoral area to enhance sensation and increase blood flow, leading to heightened arousal and pleasure. Simply apply a small amount of balm to the clitoral hood and gently massage it in for maximum effect.

2. Labia: You can also apply arousal balm to the labia for added sensation and pleasure. Apply a small amount of balm to the outer lips of the vulva and massage it in gently to enhance sensation and arousal in this area.

3. Frenulum Of The Penis: The benefit of arousal balms isn't reserved for people with vulvas. Arousal balm can also be applied to the frenulum of a penis, the triangular, V-shaped area behind the tip that is often considered the most sensitive part of the penis (and the area with the highest pleasure potential).

4. Nipples: For those who enjoy nipple stimulation, arousal balms can also be applied to the nipples to enhance sensation and increase arousal.

5. Inner Thighs: For a tantalizing sensation, some people also like to apply arousal balms and serums to the inner thighs for a subtle yet arousing sensation.

6. Lips: Want to feel sexy anytime? Apply a small amount of balm to your lips throughout the day to enjoy an invigorating rush of pleasure and remind yourself just how sexy you are.

When Should Arousal Balm Be Applied?

You can apply arousal balm either before or during sex, depending on personal preference and desired effect. Some women prefer to apply arousal balm before sex as part of their pre-play routine to enhance arousal and sensitivity leading up to intimacy. Others may choose to apply it during sex to intensify pleasure and sensations in the moment.

Ultimately, it's up to you to determine when and how you want to use it.

How Long Does Arousal Balm Last?

The duration of the effects of arousal balm can vary depending on factors such as the specific product used, individual sensitivity, and application technique. In general, the effects of arousal balm typically last anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour, though some may provide longer-lasting sensations. 

Make sure to follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer and adjust usage based on personal preferences and sensitivity levels.

How Fast Do Arousal Balms Work?

It may take a few minutes for the effects of the arousal balm to be felt, with the tingling sensation typically occurring within 5 to 10 minutes after application. Individual sensitivity and the specific formulation of the arousal balm can also influence how quickly the tingling sensation is experienced.

Are Arousal Balms Safe?

Arousal balms are generally considered safe for most people when used as directed. However, it's essential to read the product label and follow the instructions carefully. Some individuals may be sensitive to certain ingredients in arousal balms, so it's a good idea to perform a patch test on a small area of skin before applying it to more sensitive areas.

If you have any concerns about using arousal balms, such as allergies or skin conditions, it's best to consult with a healthcare professional before use. As with any product, it's essential to use arousal balms responsibly and discontinue use if you experience any adverse reactions.

Can You Use Arousal Balm With Condoms?

Yes, generally, arousal balms can be used with condoms. Similar to lubricants, it's essential to check the specific product instructions and ingredients to ensure compatibility with condoms.

Some arousal balms with oil ingredients can potentially degrade latex condoms, so it's crucial to wash off such a balm with warm water and a mild soap before condom use or simply use a water-based arousal balm. Applying the arousal balm to areas away from the condom, such as the clitoral area, nipples, or inner thighs, can also help avoid direct contact and reduce the risk of affecting condom integrity.

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Remember, everyone's body is different, so feel free to experiment and find what works best for you. Whether you're applying arousal balm to the clitoral area, labia, nipples, inner thighs, or all of the above, the most important thing is to listen to your body and enjoy the sensations it brings. Here's to embracing pleasure and satisfaction in all your intimate moments!

Rather than racing to the finish line, water masturbation - a form of slow pleasure - encourages women to explore their sexuality at their own pace. For many, the resulting water orgasm is the best orgasm.